Forgiving Him for Cheating — Does He Deserve it?
Citizens of Cairns, hear me out. I used to be a cheating boyfriend. Wait, don’t leave! I have changed, believe me. My cheating ways are far behind me. I only cheated once in my life, and it was in a showing of great weakness on my part. I was with the love of my life, and I always knew it. However, I was going through a really dark period. I won’t go into the specific details, but suffice it to say that I felt like my whole life was caving in on me. Thankfully, my loving girlfriend decided to stick through the dark period and offer me super helpful support. However, somehow, I still felt the need to show my weakness in an act of cheating. I was tempted by a brunette secretary in the office who always flirts with me. One night, when I was in a particularly grim mood, I decided to take her up on her offer to go back to her car and have sex. The sex was not good at all, because all I could think about was the love of my life who was waiting for me at home. When I returned home that night, I instantly confessed to her what I did. I told her it was the biggest mistake of my life, and that I will forever love her. She didn’t talk to me for a few days after that, and our relationship was shaky for a while, to say the least. However, somehow, she found it in her heart to forgive me. We are still together today, and that darkness is long gone now. Our relationship actually could not be better. In fact, I’m planning on proposing to her next week! Hopefully, she does not suspect a thing. Anyway, as a man who was once a cheating boyfriend, I think it’s important for you to know that your cheating boyfriend can potentially change, just like I did. If you’re thinking of giving your boyfriend a second chance after cheating, I’m living proof that that might be a great decision for you.
How to Forgive a Cheater — Strap in for a Long Journey
If you’re thinking about how to forgive a cheater, you first need to prepare yourself for the long and arduous road that is ahead of you. Being cheated on gives you great pain and suffering, and it’s not the kind of ordeal that can be rectified overnight.
Cheating Forgiveness is Difficult to Come by
Cheating forgiveness can certainly be found, though it can be difficult to come by. I am eternally grateful that my girlfriend forgave me for cheating that one time, and I fully understand how difficult it was for her. You might not be able to find it in your heart to forgive your cheating boyfriend for his infidelity. However, if you truly love him, you should give forgiveness your best shot, because it might be in everyone’s best interests.
A Cheating Boyfriend Must Prove Himself to You
In this venture, you need to let your cheating boyfriend do most of the hard work. You are the victim, after all, and you need to sit back and observe as he rebuilds his sense of loyalty.
There May Still be Hope for the Relationship
Again, if you think your boyfriend might be your soulmate, you owe it to yourself to give forgiveness a shot. There is still hope for the relationship if you are patient and dedicated enough. Good luck.